For the same reason that they create this front of blissfulness, acting way too happy and fake when interacting with others. Because their life is quite monotone and kinna sucks. It’s full of fears, anxieties, and drama for a reason or no good reason whatsoever. How do I know? – The moment of truth comes when they are alone. They look anything but happy. As a result, most local women are not emotionally strong and stable enough to deal with a guy or keeps it real, who is a realist and who gets dark and cynical when he feels like it. They need someone who will at least try to pull them out of where they really are emotionally. Overpriced wine, yoga classes, and weekend hikes are not going to do it.