Dating and sex is simply not women’s priority in this town. A combination of being too jaded by too many Tinder / Hinge dates that haven’t gone anywhere, having sex drive suppressed by corporate jobs and feminist propaganda, and not having female imagination stimulated by quality romantic movies and books pushes love to the bottom of the local woman’s list, and way below career, dining, make-up and clothes, yoga, and trips to Napa / Tahoe.
When dating, love and sex are not your priority, you are not going to be inclined to flirt and notice romantic opportunities around you. In fact your cold stand-offish energy will clearly communicate that you just not interested in the opposite sex – from unapproachable facial expression and sunglasses, to not taking your eyes off of your smartphone and and turning away the moment any guy glances at you. And even if you do meet someone who you are kind of interested, your chance of flaking will be quite high, because … you just not that interested – not in that guys specifically, but in the entire male kind in general.
You are missing out. The question is whether you know how much.